A Hearty Christmas Feast

The magic of the season is in dining together

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The magic of the season is in dining together

A few years ago, I came across a story titled ‘Thanksgiving in Mongolia’. It was a heartbreaking account of a woman who travels to Ulaanbaatar and suffers a miscarriage there. But it’s the title that stayed with me. ‘Thanksgiving in Mongolia’—I imagined a traveller sitting down for dinner in a cosy house in some remote part of the country. Her hosts don’t generally celebrate the holiday but they’ve put up rudimentary decorations and prepared a special meal to make their guest feel at home.

Since I do not celebrate Thanksgiving, the decorations in the imagined Mongolian hosts’ dining area transmuted into hollies and mistletoes. Every Christmas, this image reminds me to be grateful for the many families I have made away from home. Instead of going back to the nostalgic idea of a festival and desperately trying to recreate and recapture it, the holidays become an acknowledgement of the journeys I have made and the special people I have encountered along the way.

Here are some tips to be good ‘Mongolian’ hosts:

The Setting

Call friends over. You can’t be hostus mostus if you don’t have guests. Celebrations on Christmas Eve are more religious in nature with believers attending midnight Mass. The feast is generally an afternoon affair on Christmas Day.

Decorate your house

There’s no dearth of decorations available in the market, from artificial pine trees to preassembled nativity scenes. You don’t have to buy them, though. Making decorations from scratch is a fun way to involve the little ones.

Play some carols

No one heralds Christmas the way Jim Reeves does with his mellow baritone. Reeves’s album Twelve Songs of Christmas is the only playlist you need for your get-together.

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